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Rick Archer's Note:
Although
The Wedding Cruise is a sequel to
Gypsy Prophecy, it is unnecessary to read
my previous book to enjoy the further adventures of
Rick and Marla Archer. That said, a brief
recap of the Gypsy Prophecy as well as
my dance career is in order.
Starting
in 1978, I created a Houston dance
studio named
SSQQ (Slow Slow Quick Quick).
SSQQ was so successful, I was able to carve out a 32
year career as a teacher and studio owner. We taught social dancing
in subjects such as Ballroom, Swing,
Latin and Country-Western. At its peak, 1,400 people a week walked
through our doors, a remarkable total. Along
the way I helped build a thriving Houston dance community
kept intact by a network of close
friendships. As we shall see, Marla played a
key role in this development. In fact, her
work will be a major
theme of this book.
Slow Dance leads to Romance. That
phrase served as the lynchpin of my successful dance
studio. Right from
the outset SSQQ was an amazing hotbed of romantic
activity. It seems the moment a man learns how
to properly place a woman in his arms, his charm
increases dramatically. Since women love to be
held, the combination of dance music and a journey
across the floor represented an irresistible magic.
Assuming
a man has just met an attractive lady he does not
know, asking her to dance is a surprisingly effective
way to get her in his arms. With a legion of
energetic dancers meeting one partner after another
in dance class, my studio became Cupid's
playground. Given 700 partners to choose from,
people could pick the one they liked, then let the
potent dance chemistry go to work. Once the
spark was lit, countless love affairs were spawned,
many of which evolved into serious relationships.
Over the course of my career, SSQQ averaged one new
wedding per month. I considered SSQQ to be the
closest thing to a 'Wedding Factory' ever
invented.
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2001 DANCE
CRUISE: RICK AND MARLA MEET
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Throughout my dance career, I faced a dilemma.
Whenever I was miserable in my personal life, I
dealt with loneliness by spending more time with my
dance students. For example, I would often join them
for dancing at a club after class at 9 pm. On
weekends I would join the gang at someone's
house for a party or meet them for dancing
somewhere. The studio always flourished due to
my increased involvement. However, whenever I was in a
relationship, I preferred to spend my free time with
the woman I cared about. Inevitably the energy
at the studio would diminish somewhat.
On
Christmas Eve 2000, my wife Judy asked for a
divorce. Since she was willing to split
custody of Samantha, our only child, I agreed.
So here we go again. What I do when my
personal life is miserable? I get more
involved in the dance studio. Which is what I
did. I booked an August 2001 dance cruise for
the studio, then set about promoting the trip.
I did a good job. 100 guests signed up.
One of those guests was Marla. Although
we knew each other at the studio before the trip
started, it was little more than "hi, hello, how are you?"
Marla wasn't looking. She had a steady boyfriend of six years.
Unfortunately for Marla's boyfriend, he made a
critical mistake. Never let a girlfriend with
Marla's looks go on a singles cruise alone. By
the time the trip was over, Marla had exchanged the old
boyfriend. Connecting in a powerful way,
before the trip ended we agreed to
take our promising relationship as far as we
possibly could. We have never been apart
since.
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2002 DANCE
CRUISE: THE GYPSY PROPHECY
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Walking off the
ship hand in hand, Marla and I
spent the following year getting to know each other better.
Recalling the events of our 2001 trip with great fondness ,
Marla and I arranged a 'Same Time Next Year'
cruise for August 2002. Sailing aboard a Royal Caribbean
cruise ship known as the Rhapsody, one night we went to the
corner of a dark lounge to celebrate our first anniversary.
As we talked, Marla
suddenly remembered a long-forgotten conversation she had
with a Gypsy. One night in March
2001 (18 months ago), Marla had met a group of SSQQ dance friends at a club. On a trip to the restroom, Marla noticed a
Gypsy sitting by herself way in the back. On a
whim, Marla decided to sit down and have her fortune told.
"The Gypsy handed me
a deck of Tarot cards and
asked me to shuffle them
several times. She asked for the
cards
back and proceeded to lay
the top
five cards down on the table.
After studying the
cards, she took the palm of my hand and
examined
it. For good measure, she put my hand between
hers and closed her eyes. When
the
Gypsy was
ready, she opened her eyes
and
told me my fortune.
"These
cards do not tell what
will happen, they
tell what
might happen. You have a
choice between two paths. You are in a long-term relationship that brings you sorrow.
However, there is a good chance this
relationship will work again if you
nurture it. On the other path, I see you are
considering a certain journey. If you take
this journey, your life will be changed forever.
On this journey, you will meet the man you will
spend the rest of your life with. One more
thing. If you take this journey, you already know the person you
will meet."
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As one can guess, this was the Gypsy Prophecy.
Although
we were stunned to say the least, I handled it better
than Marla. Due to a
lifetime filled with unusual experiences, I had developed a deep interest in Fate long before I met Marla.
However, Marla's revelation took the cake. A woman who was a
complete stranger had anticipated that Marla was interested in
taking a trip. Which was true.
The Gypsy had said Marla already knew the person she would
meet. This was also true. But did Marla think of me
when the Gypsy said that? No. My name
never crossed her mind. Most important
of all, the Gypsy said Marla would meet the man she would
spend the rest of her life with if she took the journey.
So, was this the reason Marla signed up for the trip several
days later? One would suppose, but Marla said no. When she got back to
the table where her friends were sitting, they dismissed the
Gypsy's prediction as total rubbish. Embarrassed,
Marla found herself agreeing with them, so she forgot all
about it. However, now that the subject of 'a
journey' had come up in conversation, her friend Sherry used the opportunity to
persuade Marla to be her roommate on the August trip.
Thinking about it on the way home, Marla decided to come on the trip
as a way to make new friends and establish a world of her own outside of
the boyfriend.
During the
August 2001 cruise, Marla and I fell in love, partially
validating the Gypsy's prediction. Keep in mind we had
just met, so neither of us were thinking in terms such as 'the rest of
our lives'. But here is the strange part.
As our romance developed on the ship and afterwards, not
once did Marla recall what the Gypsy had
told her back in March 2001. As a result,
Marla and I spent the next year totally unaware of the
Supernatural overtones that had foreshadowed our whirlwind love affair.
One night during the 2002 Cruise,
Marla's memory came back as we spoke of last year's
events. Marla was shocked. She had great
difficulty accepting that she
had forgotten such a bold prediction in the first place. In
addition, it was spooky to think that Fate had brought us
together. Fortunately, I
reassured her there was nothing to worry about. Having
spent the past 30 years thinking about Fate and its effect
on our lives, I was very comfortable with the idea that a
Gypsy had foretold our connection. Given time to think
about it, Marla grew comfortable with the idea that we were
'meant to be'.
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THE 2002 RHAPSODY
CRUISE
MARLA BECOMES A TRAVEL AGENT
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One of the sweet
moments in It's a Wonderful Life takes place when
a
bell rings on the Christmas tree to signify Clarence has just
become an angel. Wouldn't it be nice if a bell would
ring
anytime we were unsure just what God wants us to do next?
In a sense, that is what happened to Marla during our 2002
trip aboard the Rhapsody. Marla wondered if the Gypsy
Prophecy was a message of some sort.
The Gypsy had
indicated Marla would meet the man she would spend the
rest of her life with. Except that we required no validation.
By the time Marla's memory was
restored, we were
already sold on a future together. Nevertheless, we
appreciated the confirmation because it
accelerated our tendency to think long-term. But what
else might the message be?
Marla and I
spent most of the next day discussing the Gypsy.
Towards the end of the conversation, the subject turned to
how much our guests were enjoying their trip on the
beautiful Rhapsody. Given how successful Marla's idea
had been to switch from Carnival (2001) to Royal Caribbean, we both
noted the strong uptick in enthusiasm. Given that our
relationship had started on a cruise ship and how the Gypsy
revelation involved taking a cruise, Marla and I were
convinced 'Cruise Trips' were meant to play a major
role in our future. In other words, someone had just
rung a little bell.
Convinced that "dancing"
and "cruise trips" fit like a glove, we agreed we should promote more cruises through SSQQ.
However first we had to
figure out a way to stop giving the cruise commissions away to someone
else. We needed someone 'in-house' to organize
and promote the trips. The obvious person would be Marla.
Considering 'Travel'
had
long been Marla's favorite hobby, she was a natural for this
role.
I
also knew Marla was an incredible businesswoman.
But
would she accept?
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Marla did not have to
think twice. She had been independently thinking the same
thing. Although her daughter Marissa's college tuition was
paid for, why not start saving for an expensive wedding
down the road. And so it was agreed... Marla would become a
Travel Advisor. When the 2002 trip ended,
I used my contacts
to secure a position for
Marla as a "travel agent in training".
This was not
meant to be a full-time job. Although Marla would work for an
agency, she would be a home-based agent with the authority to book
cruises for her own customers.
Marla wasted no
time. She organized her first cruise
trip in 2003. It was a modest first try, a 4-day trip
to Cozumel and back to Galveston. The time was
right (July 4th holiday) and the price was incredible.
This was
the least expensive cruise trip anyone had ever heard of.
Marla ended up with 144
passengers, an unheard of total. Unfortunately, we
were alarmed to discover how decrepit the ship was. It lacked
air-conditioning and rocked constantly. The ship was so old,
we learned
this was its last voyage in U.S. waters. Too bad no
one had bothered to tell Marla. Now she knew why the price had
been so low.
Fortunately, her
February 2004
Mardi Gras cruise trip turned out much better.
This trip received high marks. Not only was Marla smart to
switch back to the Rhapsody, she had the clever idea to use the ship
as a floating hotel. The cruise trip was the same price as an
expensive New Orleans hotel at Mardi Gras, the trip would include a
visit to Cozumel afterwards. This appealing 2 for 1 strategy
was so well received, Marla decided to offer a follow-up cruise the same year.
She booked a September dance cruise to sail the Caribbean on the
Rhapsody.
Something important
happened midway between the Mardi Gras cruise and the upcoming September
dance cruise. On a Memorial Day trip to Rocky Mountain National
Park, Marla and I got engaged. And that is where we will pick
up our story of the Wedding Cruise.
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