GYPSY PROPHECY
CHAPTER SIXTEEN:
ASTONISHMENT
Written by Rick
Archer
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DAY TWO: SUNDAY NIGHT,
10 PM
THE HALLWAY COINCIDENCE
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I was on Supernatural Alert the moment
I saw Marla. Cabin doors
swing in, not out. This had allowed me to open the door
undetected. As a result, Marla had no idea I was there.
As Marla and Sherry walked past my room, I had missed her by
a split-second. She was so close I
could have taken one step and touched her shoulder with my
left hand.
Unaware of my presence, the ladies
continued towards the elevators. I wanted to say
something or chase them, but I was too
astonished to move. Caught in the grip of Supernatural
Awe, I
just stood there staring at Marla and Sherry in amazement. The coincidence of having Marla
cross my path the exact moment I found the
courage to open the door was a "fall to my knees"
moment. I believed I had just witnessed a
small miracle. This was the
Force of Fate, this was Divine Intervention. I was
sure of it.
Still paralyzed, I took note that
there was no Darren.
Stunned by
my good luck, I felt dizzy with relief.
Following an hour of despair
and three failed attempts to go
find Marla, my Dark Night of the Soul had just
come to a
merciful end. Or maybe not. I was about to call
out to Marla, but stopped when
another disturbing thought hit.
What if the ladies were headed to
Darren's cabin? Unsure of myself,
I began to silently trail them down the hallway.
But then I lost my temper and stopped cold in my
tracks. Angry at myself
for behaving like a stalker, I decided to put a
swift end to my cowardice.
"Richard Archer, this fear has to stop
now! The Universe has placed
Marla in front of my eyes!!! How much more help do I need?
Go
tackle the woman if necessary and find out once
and for all who Darren is!"
Due to my
hesitation, Sherry and Marla were now fifty
feet ahead.
Feeling sheepish,
I ran to close the distance, then slowed down
as I drew near to present
the appearance of
dignity. I did not want them to think I was
sneaking up on them even though that was exactly
what I was doing. Just as they were about to
turn the corner to reach the elevators, it was time to announce my
presence.
"Hey,
Marla and Sherry, wait up!"
Now it was Marla's turn to be shocked. She
whirled around in surprise, then stared in wide-eyed wonder like I was
an apparition. "Where did you come from?" she exclaimed.
What should I
say?
There was little to gain by
revealing my Dark Night of the Soul. Fearful I would
reek of desperation if I told the truth, there was no reason for Marla
to know I had just spent the past hour alternating between tears
and rage. Nor did she need to know about my bewildered debate over
her virtue, veracity and sanity. Why let the truth spoil this
joyful reunion? What Marla did not know would not hurt her.
Instead I pretended there was nothing wrong.
In particular, I avoided bringing up Darren even though I was dying to learn the
truth. Save it for later.
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"Hi, Marla, hi Sherry, what a pleasure to run into you.
Where are you headed?"
Marla smiled, then added, "Sherry and I are headed to the
show. Would you like to join us?"
Overwhelmed with relief, yes
indeed I would like to join them. A sweeter offer have
never been heard. The
absence of Darren was equally gratifying. Still not
sure where where I stood, I risked
reaching for Marla's hand.
I was overjoyed
when
she accepted with a smile. Goodness gracious, there
was hope for me after all. I had just spent the past
hour fearing she hated me. Now with this simple
gesture, my despair was replaced by a powerful belief
that today's ordeal had been a spiritual test.
Believing things were going to work out after all, my eyes
were filled with tears as we walked to the theater.
Finding Marla in the hallway had been weird. Wonderful
to be sure, but weird, very weird.
Totally in the dark
regarding what had caused this Day
of Confusion, I assumed there would be a difficult
reckoning later on. However, I was certain of one
thing. Two straight nights of chance meetings,
first in the Disco, now in the Hallway, had me convinced
Marla and I were Fated to be together. That belief
would sustain me in the long talk ahead.
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WHY I
BELIEVE IN
MIRACLES
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There are four kinds of Coincidences. The vast
majority are Meaningless coincidences which
can be easily ignored.
Some
Coincidences are strange enough to raise an eyebrow, but
lack total certainty as to Supernatural origin. There
may be other explanations which serve to
raise doubt. Could this have Realistically taken
place? Or is the Mystical explanation sufficiently "Suspicious" to
deserve being added to the List?
A
"Serious" Coincidence is special. No matter what the
Coincidence, there will always be doubt to varying degrees. However,
sometimes a Coincidence is so profound, the most likely
explanation seems Supernatural in origin.
Then there are "Ultra-Serious" Coincidences.
These are so rare and so
important they have the power to change the course of
someone's life. Out of 120 Coincidences on my List,
there are only four Ultra-Serious Coincidences.
Here is an example of an Ultra-Serious Coincidence. I have spoken of Maria Ballantyne's
unexpected appearance at my grocery store during my Senior
year of high school. Mrs. Ballantyne had never met me.
I was a complete stranger to her. If Mrs. Ballantyne
had walked in the store, bought groceries, then left without
saying a word, that would have been a "Meaningless
Coincidence". But that is not what happened.
Just as I was about to walk away after putting her groceries
in the trunk, Mrs.
Ballantyne noticed I was wearing clothing that resembled the
St. John's school uniform.
Curious, she asked me to
stop so she could check out her sudden hunch. After I
confirmed her suspicion, Mrs. Ballantyne could just as
easily said "Pleased to meet you" and left. But
that is not what happened. Mrs. Ballantyne became
curious why any boy who attended a rich kid's school would be
working this menial after-school job for a buck an hour plus
tips. So she began to interview me.
Shocked by my explanation, Mrs. Ballantyne suddenly realized
she was dealing with a seriously disturbed young man.
In that moment, her mother's instinct kicked in. This caused her
to stay and see if she could help. Not only
did her intervention solve my crisis, the unanswered
questions behind her mysterious appearance awakened my
lifelong interest in God and Fate. Mrs. Ballantyne's
intervention changed the course of my life. That is
what made this Coincidence 'Ultra-Serious'.
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As
Marla and I watched the
show in the dark
theater, I had a chance
to debate the merits of
the Hallway Coincidence.
There were so many
aspects that felt out of the Ordinary,
I became incredibly spooked by the surrealistic quality of Marla's
sudden appearance at
such an auspicious time.
This Coincidence
was definitely "Serious",
but was it "Ultra-Serious"?
Would it change the
course of my life?
Over the
years I have
developed four criterion to
evaluate whether a curious
incident deserves to be
added to the List or not.
My criteria includes Probability,
Timing,
Impact, plus a
subjective element I call
the "Weird Factor".
While it is true
that Marla's cabin was only four
doors away, that is relatively
unimportant. I had no idea
she was there during my
hour of soul searching.
In fact, I assumed she
was with Darren.
Which was partially
true. While I tore
my hair out in the
solitude of my cabin, Marla
shared dinner
with Darren and Sherry at a
leisurely pace. Afterwards the
two women returned to their
cabin to change outfits before
attending the show.
Although I could have
left my cabin at any
time during my 75-minute
span, I
left at the exact moment
necessary to spot Marla.
What were the chances? I
estimate there was at most a
four-minute window of
opportunity for the Hallway
Coincidence to take place. It
took two minutes to walk the
hallway from our rooms to the
elevator. The elevator was
hidden from sight around a
corner. Had I left two
minutes before Marla, she would
have never seen me. If she
had left two minutes before
me, I would have missed her.
Given
that I unsuccessfully
tried to open my cabin door to
search for Marla three
separate
times, each failure
delayed my departure roughly
10 minutes apiece. At the exact
moment I finally made the
impulsive decision to leave,
there was Marla.
The critical Timing could not
possibly have been more
suspicious. Was it an
accident? Or did
the Hidden Hand of God
create the split-second
timing?
Probability
How does one assign odds to a
coincidence of this magnitude?
Beats the heck out of me. However,
I do have an interesting way
to
assess the probability of a coincidence.
I call it the "Cumulative
Effect".
Rather than evaluate the
odds of an incident by
itself, sometimes I look
at the overall context.
As it turns out,
there was a serious flurry
of other Coincidences
surrounding our Fairy Tale
Romance, ten to be specific.
I will list them all in due
time. If I view these ten
coincidences as 'Linked
Together', then there is
a Cumulative
Probability.
Let's
assign low odds to finding
Marla in the Hallway, one in
ten. If I left my
cabin at 10 random times
during the night,
maybe one time in ten I
would run into Marla.
But what probability
should I assign to
Cinderella Night?
What were odds of
running into Marla at
the perfect time on the
previous night?
For simplicity's sake,
let's rate all ten
Coincidences as "one
in ten".
What do I do, add or
multiply? If we
"add" one in ten, the probability of
ten Linked-Coincidences is one in
a hundred. If we
multiply them 10 times, the
probability becomes one in
ten billion. In other
words, the probability of
the Hallway
Coincidence standing alone
is not earth-shattering.
However, when seen in the context
of nine other coincidences
(some of which I have not
revealed), the odds begin to
approach the
Astronomical. This is
what Carl Jung meant
with this important
quote:
"The problem of
Synchronicity has puzzled me for a long time, ever since my
middle twenties when I was investigating the phenomena of the
collective unconscious. I kept on coming across
connections which I simply could not explain as chance groupings. What I found were 'coincidences'
which were connected so meaningfully that their chance
concurrence would represent a degree of improbability that would
have to be expressed by an astronomical figure."
-- Carl Jung
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What
was the Impact of the
Hallway Coincidence?
Incredible. This
Coincidence opened the
door for Marla
to become my wife.
Which brings us back to
Fate. The
Hallway Coincidence was
the moment I first
believed our union was
meant to be. But
what does the Reader
think?? The whole point of this book
has been to decide whether
our pairing was one of
life's cheerful accidents or
was it Destiny. Have
you decided yet?
One way to study this is
to ask what might have
happened "Without the
Coincidence." If I had not found Marla
when I did, our chances
would have been severely
jeopardized. Why?
Marla's Darren
Flirtation shook me to
the core of my being.
Without the Hallway
Coincidence, my
ever-increasing distrust could have prevented
any further
communication.
As we
shall see, the Day of
Confusion was created by a
lack of trust on both our
parts. Our
misconceptions were so
serious, the Darren
Incident was very nearly the
final straw for both of us.
Marla was so fed up with me,
I assumed she was looking
for the Exit Door. So
was I. It is
embarrassing to admit how
many times in the past I had walked
away from a potential
relationship at the first
sign of trouble. On
the other hand, I took more
risks to save my
relationship with Marla than
ever before in my life.
But without the Hallway
Coincidence, the Darren
Incident might have been the
end of us.
Bitter
and full of rage following
the Darren Incident, I was headed
for the point of no return.
I definitely
felt star-crossed.
The sad thing is that I had
been on the losing end of
complicated love affairs
many times before.
After coming up empty in
nine consecutive Love
Triangles over the years, I
felt defeated before I even
began to fight.
Indeed, as I sat in my cabin
during the Dark Night of the
Soul, my
sense of helplessness was so
great that I was ready to
walk away from Marla and cut my losses.
In fact, my Reasoning side was just about to throw in
the towel when my Intuition
insisted I give it one more try. Thank goodness I
found the courage to listen.
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What
would have happened to Rick
and Marla without the
Hallway Coincidence? It
goes without saying that
both of us were completely
in the dark as to the
other's person's motives
during the Day of Confusion.
Marla's actions at dinner
suggested to me she was no longer
interested me.
That turned out to be
untrue, but how was I
supposed to know that unless
we spoke?
So why
not walk four doors and
knock? You don't know
me very well. To understand the degree of
my dilemma, as I sat alone
in my room I was totally
convinced Marla was still
with Darren. What if I
knocked and discovered Marla
was in there with Darren? I would
die a million deaths. Terrified of further
rejection, never in a
thousand years would I have
found the guts to knock on
Marla's door.
My
only hope was to
scour the ship.
If I spotted Marla with
Darren, game over. I
would either return to my
room in misery or jump off
the ship, whichever comes
first. But if
Marla was unattached, I
would speak to her.
What were my chances of
finding Marla? Slim
and none. Marla was
headed for the theater. Of course
I would have checked the
theater, but I doubt
seriously I would have
spotted her. Once
seated, she would have been
shrouded in darkness amidst
a throng of 400 spectators.
Unwilling to disrupt the
show by roaming up and down
the theater corridors, I
would wander the ship in
vain for an hour and a half.
Disgusted and full of
despair, no doubt I would
have assumed the worst.
Marla was out of sight
because she was with Darren,
perhaps in his cabin,
perhaps in hers.
Either way, I would conclude
the whole thing was
hopeless. Depressed
out of my mind, I would have
given up and
returned to my room.
Here
is my point. There is
an old saying that a Lie
goes halfway around the
world while the Truth is
still
putting on its shoes.
Letting a Lie go unchecked
is similar to the danger of
letting a snake bite go
untreated. Never give poison
time to spread.
Following
the Darren Incident, Rick
and Marla
both operated under
serious misconceptions
regarding
the other person.
As
our fears spiraled badly out
of control, what
would have happened if we
had not reconnected as
swiftly as we did?
Given
how unlikely it would have
been for our paths to cross
if I had been forced to
search for Marla throughout the
ship,
imagine how
miserable I would have been
alone in
my room all night long.
It
would have been breakfast
the next morning before we
had an opportunity to speak
again. Twelve hours
would have passed.
Given the
degree of paranoia
circulating in my mind, I
shudder to think if my hostility
had been allowed to multiply unchecked
throughout the night.
Plagued by rampant distrust, would I want
to speak with Marla in the
morning? Maybe yes,
more likely no. Same for
Marla. Why didn't Rick
come find her? Who was
he with last night? Do
you see my point? There was a
strong chance Marla's disgust
was so great that she would
choose not to speak to me again.
In
other words, Marla and I
were both very
fortunate to be handed a
chance to
clear the air in a timely
fashion. That was the
Impact of the Hallway
Coincidence.
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Finding
Marla when I did allowed us to
correct our misconceptions
before they became
insurmountable enough to make
one or both of us walk away.
What would
be the tagline for the Rick and
Marla
romance movie?
"A
lovesick man believes
the woman he covets will
never return his affection
when suddenly a Fairy Tale
coincidence inspires her
sudden change of heart.
However, it is all for naught as the
stars conspire to ruin any future
for
their romance. Just
when their fragile love
affair appears doomed, a
highly unlikely encounter
saves the day."
Derived from archaic
Anglo-Saxon, in olden times "Wyrd" conveyed a
sense of Fate, Destiny, or Doom.
I use the word "Weird" to describe an event I think might
be "Supernatural" in
origin. Synonyms for
Weirdness include eerie,
unnatural, unreal, unearthly,
otherworldly, ghostly,
mysterious, mystifying,
extraordinary, strange,
abnormal, unusual, bizarre, creepy,
spooky, freaky, odd,
uncanny, inexplicable. Every single one of
those words describes how
I felt when I saw Marla walk
across my path at a critically
volatile moment.
So what
did I think was going on?
In a manner very similar to
Maria Ballantyne's visit to my
grocery store, I believe the
Universe was involved. If
forced to guess, perhaps the
Universe kept me paralyzed with
fear just long to prevent me
from opening the door until the
perfect moment. The
timing of Marla's hallway stroll past my cabin was so
extraordinary, I was convinced I was witnessing a Supernatural
Event. Why? After Marla had completely ignored me
for
six months, on Cinderella Night she was handed to me on a silver platter.
After an entire Day of Confusion
when nothing made sense, Marla
was again handed to me on a
silver platter. Rather convenient, yes?
A crazy Accident? Or was
it Fate? In my opinion, the shocking events
of the past two days were beyond 'Weird'.
And guess what? We
are not done yet.
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RICK'S
LIST OF
SUSPECTED SUPERNATURAL EVENTS
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Serious |
Coincidence
Wish come true |
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Rick and Marla's "Wish upon a Star" Cinderella-style meeting
in the cruise ship nightclub is followed by the Enchanted Evening.
The ensuing conversation leads to a lightning romance |
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Suspicious |
Love is Blind
Cosmic Blindness |
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Marla's dinnertime flirtation with Darren fools Rick completely, thereby creating his intense Dark
Night of the Soul |
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Ultra Serious |
Coincidence |
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Rick walks out the
door at the exact moment Marla is passing by.
This important Coincidence not only solved the Mystery of the Darren
Flirtation, it gave Rick and Marla the much-needed chance to end
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